Once again the fabulous Lou Paget was the guest (www.LouPaget.com) . She is an AASECT Certified Sex Educator, and international best-selling author and entrepreneur of five books, translated into 28 languages. Monogamy: Do you? Don’t you? Whose definition do you use? How ‘bout “monogamish”? For any of these options, the couple needs transparency and good communication. Re-entering the dating world: If you want to date and have a relationship with a great person, you must start by being a great person yourself. Some inner work, professional therapy may be necessary. Lou points out how important traits of kindness and appreciation are. In fact, what you don’t feed, dies.