Love, Lust, and Laughter – Ask April – 07/11/12

Hi

I have been following this program for a while now. Diana is doing a good job and I am glad this format exists.

There was something that April said that I particularly agree with, and that is that it is probably not a good idea to begin a relationship ( from a male perspective at least ) as a “friend”.

I have never liked the ” friends first” scenario. I generally go for what appeals to me in a woman, try to let her know that particular chemistry is there and ask how she would like to proceed.

I also like to meet someone who can discuss sexual issues up front, rather than having to prove that I am “safe” by not bringing the subject up at all. As April said, why waste your time? Try to find out who the person is in all respects before dating. It will save a lot of grief in my experience.

One more point of feedback….. we need to get a balance of male perspective on this and other PRN sex/ relationship programming.