Bradley Coates, Esq., returned to the program. He and Dr. Diana – longtime friends – discussed the 4^th Edition of his book “DIVORCE with DECENCY.” The focus was on the different effects of divorce on men and women. Brad explained why men often want to “re-up” and take another stab at marriage, and why women often fare better because they are more resilient. This program is rich with information! For more, please visit www.CoatesandFrey.com.

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Originally aired on 4/2/13

Overcoming Sexual Abuse

Grant Cameron is an award-winning journalist and author who wrote “What about Me – A Book for Men Helping Female Partners Deal with Childhood Sexual Abuse.”  Dr. Diana interviewed Grant and his wife Liz who was sexually abused.  The book reflects the traumatic and trying times encountered along their journey to healing.  In today’s show, there is much helpful information – including how to help a survivor cope and deal with her anger and pain.  And, what about the sexual relationship?  Grant’s book is available on a PDF download at www.helpforpartners.wordpress.com. This is a wonderful book for couples going through these kind of challenges, giving hope, and supporting healthy communication.

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Candida Royalle has gained public traction in both the adult and academic communities for her erotic films featuring plotlines from a female perspective. Men and women alike learn from and applaud her films; in addition, the therapeutic and sexology communities benefit.  Please go towww.CandidaRoyalle.com for more information.  A surprise caller, Richard Pachecho, added to the program. Richard and Candida performed together inPizza Girls long ago, and he told some amusing performance anxiety stories. Richard wisely said, “Men have sex as a way to make contact, and women have sex to celebrate that contact has been made!”  This is a fascinating and illuminating program.  Do listen!

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Bradley Coates, Esq., author of the award-winning 4^th edition “Divorce with Decency” was Dr. Diana’s guest once again – and Bryan Brewer was the co-host. This time they discussed the differences between men and women. There are many: our brains, values, communication styles, and sexuality. How has the women’s movement and the “sheconomy” impacted marriages and divorces? You will find out by listening!

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Dr. Diana’s guest was Allena Gabosch the Executive Director of the Center for Sex Positive Culture in Seattle, WA.  www.thecspc.org   Allena is a frequent speaker on many sex positive subjects at colleges and conferences around the United States and Canada. Various questions were asked: What is a Sex Positive Renaissance? What is the history of CSPC? What is Poly, Kink, BDSM with its power exchanges? Is there an erotic side for pain and intensity? What about jealously?  If a couple decides to negotiate fidelity – their sexual parameters – then transparency and communication are key. Each partner should disclose their feelings and fears. Allena is also the Producer for the Seattle Erotic Art Festival, in its 11^th year this June attracting some six thousand people. Dr. Diana is an Art Activist for the Festival.

Grant Cameron is an award-winning journalist and author who wrote “What about Me – A Book for Men Helping Female Partners Deal with Childhood Sexual Abuse.”  Dr. Diana interviewed Grant and his wife Liz who was sexually abused.  The book reflects the traumatic and trying times encountered along their journey to healing.  In today’s show, there is much helpful information – including how to help a survivor cope and deal with her anger and pain.  And, what about the sexual relationship?  Grant’s book is available on a PDF download at www.helpforpartners.wordpress.com. This is a wonderful book for couples going through these kind of challenges, giving hope, and supporting healthy communication.

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Repeat Program – Originally aired on 2/12/13

Nina Hartley – (www.Nina.com) – has become one of the most endearing and recognizable performers in the adult industry. After 29 years she still shines! That’s because Nina has a natural enthusiasm for sex, and wants others to be sexually competent and confident. Her instructional line of videos are just that: educational and entertaining!  Sex should be fun!  Nina gives many suggestions for folks still in the process of exploring…being more self-accepting about their sexuality. The porn debate was examined as well. Tune-in for a most provocative show!

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Dr. Bob Basso – www.BobBasso.com – is a fun and very funny guy!  Listen, and you’ll be inspired to incorporate some humor into your relationships – because keeping it healthy can be a laughing matter; indeed, couples who laugh together last together.  Dr. Bob is a terrific story-teller!  He has stories which perfectly illustrate how laughter/fun/play can impact health, overall attitudes, business success, and sexuality. One of his books is “This Job Should be Fun”…Here’s a quote from the President of the European Leadership Institute: “Every one of the 200 CEO’s rated you, Dr. Basso, as the greatest speaker they have ever heard…You gave us skills that will change us forever.”  Tune-in for all the details!

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The very prolific (17 books under her belt) and wise Dr. Pepper Schwartz spoke about “The Normal Bar — The Surprising Secrets of Happy Couples and What They Reveal about Creating a New Normal in Your Relationship.”  With her co-authors, she collected data from more than 70,000 people around the world. You may go to www.theNormalBar.com to contribute to the ongoing online survey. This is a fascinating book on women, men, sex, and love – a compendium offering data as well as superb advice. For example, did you know that among all couples who’ve been together 10 or more years, more than half say they longer hold hands? It’s never too late to start holding hands, and it can even help settle arguments! Sadly, or so we all thought, 33% of respondents said they rarely or never have sex. There are suggestions to jump-start a sexual relationship. It’s not surprising that “The Normal Bar” is already on the best seller list. Please listen to the show, and buy this enlightening book…Your relationship will benefit enormously!